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3 Alternatives to the Traditional Divorce Process

3 Alternatives to the Traditional Divorce Process

Just as no two marriages are the same, no two divorces are the same. For many couples, the traditional method of divorce is simply not effective for their case. Though the probability of a first marriage ending in divorce within five years is 20%, there is no objectively “right” way to divorce.

Whether you are considering divorce or are currently in the process, here are a few excellent alternatives to the traditional model.

DIY Divorce
No matter how many divorces you have been through or how much legal knowledge you might have, do-it-yourself divorces are never a good idea. Divorce is a complex process, both legally and financially. If you are not an experienced divorce attorney, you absolutely should not handle a divorce without the appropriate legal help. So while this might seem like a good idea in a relatively simple case with no children and no assets, you should take a step back and reconsider.

Mediation
Mediation is a great alternative for couples who are divorcing on amicable terms. The process involves working with a neutral mediator, often selected from a group of divorce attorneys, who helps both parties come to a final agreement on the terms of a divorce. While a mediator does not necessarily have to be a divorce lawyer, it is imperative that they are highly experienced in matters of family law and divorce. Among other things, mediation may:

  • Result in a better long-term relationship with your spouse
  • Make the process easier for children
  • Reduce overall expenses related to divorce

Collaborative Divorce
Collaborative divorce shares a few traits with mediation, namely in that couples agree to settle their differences outside of a court. But in collaborative divorce, each party hires a lawyer versed in the collaborative process, who will advise and assist them throughout the process. This method of divorce may involve other neutral parties as well, including divorce financial planners and therapists who may assist with any emotionally-charged disputes.

No matter what type of divorce you choose, the most important thing to remember is that you need to choose the right divorce for you. If any of these methods do not fit, make sure you consult with the appropriate legal counsel.