At some point, everyone going through a divorce asks: why me? That question leads to others. Why is this happening to me? Why now? What will the future look like? Will I be okay? The information that applies to a teacher may not apply to a self-employed contractor. The information that applies to a physician may not apply to a police officer. A retiree needs different information than a Wall Street professional. A stay-at-home parent needs different advice than a tradesman in skilled labor.
This – the first – Special Divorce Guide applies to New Jersey Police Officers. I start here because my father served for a time as a New Jersey State Police Officer – a State Trooper.