Divorce is not an easy process. From hiring a good divorce attorney to potentially bringing your case to trial, the journey is usually a long and difficult one, usually lasting approximately one year.
However, like any legal process, mistakes have the potential to be made. Here are a few of the most common mistakes made during divorces and how to potentially avoid them.
Choosing the Wrong Divorce Process
The good news is that you no longer need to sit in a courtroom to fight out the entirety of a divorce. The bad news is that some people still are not aware of this. Fortunately, there are multiple kinds of divorce — mediation, negotiation, and collaborative law — that allow you to settle your differences without aggressive attorneys and harsh courtroom dates. The key to avoiding this mistake is knowing what options are available to you.
Choosing the Wrong Divorce Lawyer
The truth is that no two divorce cases are the same. When you hire a divorce attorney to help settle your legal issues, be sure to discuss the kind of person your spouse is and the type of process you want to pursue. Your lawyer is, after all, dedicated to helping you find the best outcome.
Starting the Case Too Strongly
Starting a divorce case off with a bang may seem like a great idea to get the ball rolling, but in reality the results most likely will not reflect the image you have in mind. However, starting amicably can end up saving you time, money, and frustration in the long run.
Not Having Detailed Financial Information
While it is possible to enter a divorce without knowing exact numbers, it is also never recommended. Before you start any divorce process, you should take the time to compile, in detail, the financial information of both your spouse and yourself and proceed from there.
Filing for Custody Without Fully Understanding it
Legal custody and residential custody are two different processes, which means it is imperative that you understand what you’re filing for when you claim full custody. If it’s possible to work out major issues without involving your children, you could save your whole family pain and stress.
These legal issues are simply a few of those experienced during divorce. Keep your eyes open for part two.